Kindness.
I think I rarely hear that word but we expect it so much from people around us. Family. Friends. Colleagues. Acquaintance. Even from strangers.
Does kindness means, being polite? Being patient? Should you let out your anger to people? When the only thing you need is actually time and sanity. When you think you are always right, you are wrong already. (Even I always say that I always right to people haha. I was joking around tau)
When we are in pain, we forgot about other people and we hurt them instead.
That's why Allah tells you to calm your anger.
Adapting.
Bad thingssss. Happen to you. So many times. You cry over it. You overthink it.
The truth is, you need to move forward and take it as a lesson. Of course, have silver lining. But you can only see it when you find new things in life that matters or improve what you have. Move quickly. I know it is hard cause you still ponder upon it. Most of us move only when we laughed at ourselves and see that we are such a fool to be at the same sad spot.
When you move, going to your new direction/goal. You might take a long time to reach there. But you know what, be optimistic and enjoy the journey. Worry things that you can control like your attitude, your mental health. The rest, the timing, the goal itself, Allah knows what, when, how, who, where are the good stuffs for you. I mean the details. Ultimate goal, Allah's blessing and HE will never leave you when you never leave HIM. The bad things sometimes were given to you cause you no longer on the right path. You snap..then you only return to HIM. How sad is that but at least we know Allah still guide us.
If you have to choose to do the right thing or be kind. Choose TO BE KIND.
Something to ponder....
